| A New Year’s Lists Returning to my new home town, San Diego, presented a sensual wealth to me. With the warm weather, my arms fling out, exuberantly free of wool and coats. I revel in sushi, soba, and other Japanese foods, although I do occasionally sample restaurants without the bright orange salmon to butter my tongue. We have gone hiking on sandstone canyons that crumble to grit if you rub; and we’ve fished starfish from tidepools to tickle our palms a bit before returning them to their homes. As the sun hangs huge and red over Pacific Beach, I’m happy, and from this state of mind, I write to you. Again, we thank everyone who shared in our journey, whether from afar, or with us at the events. While marriage is a private relationship between individuals, it increased our joy and delight to gather friends and family into our married life as we journeyed. Photos and cards will be going out within the next few weeks, now that we’ve settled back into our home. A friend posed us this question at the end of the journey: “so what’s next?”. Our projects are many, and this month’s triumphs are a mouthful. On my side: as I am planning on graduating medical school in May, my focus has been more academic and career minded. In this month, I have completed my interviews for residency and continue to contemplate which one I want to join. It’s a balance between the strengths and weaknesses of both the programs and the cities they are in. Currently, San Diego is my favorite city, but the University of New Mexico has my favorite program. When I decide where I want to go, I submit a ranked list of the programs to the Match. I have also finished my second rotation in Pediatric Hematology-Oncology, a subspecialty I am considering practicing. Given the close proximity to death these patients can develop, I am still at the “contemplative” stage of this choice. Next, I have finished 1/3 of my senior project, a study of tae kwon do referees and how much they know about concussions. On a more personal note, I have made two great friends in San Diego, and we’re celebrating the end of the rotation with Chinese dumplings (dim sum) tomorrow. My clothes closet is starting to come to order; my mail is starting to get out of order. For his part, Sunny has upgraded the concept of “birthdays” with “Brainchild Day”. See the results of our discussion on that at http://brainchildday.com, and add a post! He designed the logo and built the website in two days! With Caleb, there’s new software in the works, and a patent search is ongoing. When they finish their work, using a computer application will be far more intuitive and efficient than now. Poetic Publishing, the online publishing and collaboration company Sunny has begun, is getting a software and security upgrade, as well as some fundamental changes to make it easier to use. For the non-software realm, Sunny’s trying out some new recipes from vegetarian soup cookbook, a gift from Eric from our wedding registry, and some beautiful soups have been showcased this month, including avocado soup with marmalade chutney. Pictures will be forthcoming. Work has demanded many hours, but fortunately the deadline has been met, and Sunny will be flying out to Washington, DC tomorrow to “enjoy” the cold weather and delicious Thai food while he works. The future holds for us all the wealth of experience, learning, and great relationships that we intend. We’ll see you there. Until next month, Truc-Ha 2006Feb04 | ![]() ![]() |